On Jan 8, 2015, at 9:37 PM, Amanda Liberty wrote:
Hello Readers...
Amanda here... Linda's daughter
What I still have yet to understand is how many beautiful, successful men and women who become victims of a broken heart. People think that just because you are good looking that you are not emotionally damaged but there are way too many people carrying emotional baggage.
We all hear from friends and family " why are you with him/her"? Or "you can do so much better" and the best yet.." Love is blind". What most of us do not realize is we actually manage what happens next. In other words, how you grow from a broken heart is critical. You need to take time to heal first before you go into your next relationship and learn not to compare your X with a new relationship. I am guilty of this always looking for someone better than my X.
Unfortunately when things turn out not be as we dreamed, a wall is built. When you put up a wall you're acting as the person you ONCE were and the reality is that person doesn't exist anymore. Emotional walls come from an allowable place.
We have one life to live so let's make the best of it and don't let one bad heartbreak determine the rest of your life. Throw that picture away, delete and block that number... Most importantly don't look back, because that moment you stop looking and dwelling on the past you just might realize what you want has been there all along, or to your left or your right...... ;)