Hello Readers, Linda here. Today I want to give some much needed advice to the guy Online Daters. When you meet a girl online, don't start talking about how you think she's the one for you or put her on a pedestal too much over the phone. This happened to me and it started to make me feel uncomfortable. I mean honestly, I haven't even met this guy in person yet and he's already talking about being a couple? This is just weird and it turns a girl off because we think this guy hasn't even seen me in person yet and what if, I mean what IF I don't like him when I see him? Awkward! This is why you don't give too much personal information to a complete stranger over the phone before you even meet!
Just try and keep the conversation light and funny at first. Don't be so serious it is just a turn off!
So, we talk a couple times on the phone and make a tentative meeting for a few days later. He doesn't call the day before to confirm or anything so I just write him off ( I had a weird feeling anyway) and you should always listen to your gut instinct.
He calls the next day from a different number because well, I blocked his cell phone, decided he was too strange and I answer the phone. He proceeds to tell me " we have a serious problem here" and I said "we do"? And he says " yes, we were supposed to meet last night. Well, luckily I got another call I needed to take so I asked him to hold on then I just never went back to his call. And don't tell me we have a serious problem! I don't have any problems and no one wants to pick up the phone to hear that kind of dialogue!
When I got off the phone, I blocked the SECOND number! Case closed or so I thought. Yesterday my phone rang again from another number and I answer it and it's him again! WTF? I hung up on him and blocked that number. Now, this is getting stalker like so if he calls again I will have to tell him he's stalking me and to knock it off or I'll have to file a report. Seriously, take a hint guys if we don't answer your call then we don't like you! Simple as that. Don't be a stalker!
Xoxo, Linda