Hello Readers, Linda here. Today I want to talk about the Online Daters who you never meet yet they want to text you and email you all the time. What’s the point dude? If you can’t meet with me within the first week of communication and I mean after we have talked on the phone, then I am wasting my time and you are wasting yours. I admit there have been occasions where I have been traveling and unavailable to meet anyone and I think in that case I should have hidden my profile I mean if you are not available then why are you on there?
If we could just weed out the people who are not serious this whole Online Dating would be a lot easier.
If you are not available to meet soon after talking on the phone then you should hide your profile until you are available. That’s why they have the option “Hide Your Profile” on the sites.
Stop with the Pen Pal status and get serious or get off the sites. If you are looking for other things they have sites for that but the dating sites are for DATING!
I also want to point out that if you message the same person several times and they do not get back to you, there is a reason. They don’t want to hurt your feelings but they are not interested. Move on to the next profile and stop wasting your time. And don’t send a hate message if they don’t answer you back! If you do then you are a crazy person with a personality disorder. Not everyone is going to be attracted to you so get over it! That’s why there are millions of profiles on there to choose from.
Xoxo, Linda