Hello Readers, Linda here. Today I want to tell you about a Plenty of Fish Dating Story. The reason I thought about this is because this Man contacted me again last night. It’s been awhile now, over a year. He messaged me on POF. No picture, but a message saying “I am a famous College Baseball Coach” and if I give you my name you can “Google” me. So, out of curiosity I googled him and sure enough he came up right away. Good looking Italian man. Seemed nice enough and I do have a weakness for athletes. .
We decided to meet after speaking on the phone several times. I am not even sure but it must not be Baseball season right now that’s why he’s back on POF. Anyway, I decide to meet him at the “Border Grill” in Santa Monica, Ca. I get there and he looks just like his picture but maybe a little heavier. That’s ok with me he’s a big guy. He has a table waiting so we go and sit down. He already had a cocktail on the table now this is a LUNCH date, not that it is a bad thing to have a cocktail at lunch but he kept on ordering them. This guy got so DRUNK and then he started telling all of the people around us that I was going to be his next wife! I was so embarrassed I could have just died.
He proceeds to write down his real estate agents name and phone number and “budget” because he wants to buy us a home in my neighborhood because he loves it there. Then he starts to tell me what he wants in the home, 4 bedrooms, an office, a pool etc. Seriously? Do you know how many women would go for that? This was our first date!
Ladies, beware of men like this. If they are famous coaches or athletes or anything else if they drink like a fish on the first date and act like an idiot stay away! Get out as fast as you can.
Footnote:
My BFF googled his name as well and found he had an outstanding restraining order against him by his ex-wife for domestic violence. Thank you God for BFF’s! That one slipped by me. He contacted me last night on POF and wanted me to call him. Of course I didn’t do it and I won’t Money cannot buy happiness I would rather be alone than be with someone like that.
Xoxo, Linda