Guest Blog provided by Michael Stephenson

Move Over, Cupid, Singles Rule this Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day has been celebrated in some shape or form for centuries. But it can seem as though there’s very little to do if you’re flying solo. However, that’s not true, and there are plenty of ways to celebrate the spirit of love, no spouse or partner required. LindasDateList.com has a few ideas on how to spend your Valentine’s Day when Cupid’s arrow has yet to hit its target.

Take the day off

Your daily obligations can make it difficult to find time for yourself. This is especially true if you are a single parent and trying to juggle the responsibilities of work and family. Give yourself the gift of a day (or night) without having to change diapers, do laundry, or mediate arguments between siblings. Fortunately, it is easier than ever to locate a babysitter you can trust. If you think you might like to spend February 14th kid-free, don’t wait too long to book your childcare since this is one of the busiest days of the year for babysitters.

De-stress

Stress can have an adverse effect on your overall health and well-being. This Valentine’s Day, show yourself some love by making an effort to lower your cortisone levels. Little things, such as taking a long bath, going for a jog, or reading your favorite book can all help you reset, recharge, and revitalize your mental health. There are also plenty of options for health supplements that can help your body regulate itself. PsyPost notes that CBD oil is an excellent example and may help alleviate anxiety, depression, and systemic inflammation, each of which can send your stress levels through the roof.

Boost your confidence

Investing in yourself can increase self-confidence in healthy and meaningful ways. Go for that bold hair color you’ve always thought about, or treat yourself to a manicure. You could also go shopping for a new outfit, one that’s comfy and versatile. No matter what season of life you’re in, you deserve to feel confident.

Mingle with other singles

You don’t have to have a date to enjoy an evening out. There are events across the country that cater to singles and will provide you an opportunity to let loose, and possibly even find love. If you’re not particularly comfortable mixing and mingling with a room full of strangers, check your Facebook (or other preferred social media) for lovelorn friends and host a singles-only dinner party. Have everyone bring a dish to share, grab a bottle of wine and a box of chocolates, and play some fun games. You may even start a yearly tradition. 

Start a “secret cupid” exchange

Santa isn’t the only one that can give gifts on the sly. Consider starting a “secret Cupid” exchange with your friends, family, or coworkers. MemorableGifts.com recommends practical items, such as photo albums and business card holders, but feel free to get creative and assign a theme to your incognito gift giving. For example, gifts that can be purchased for $2.14 or things you wish your ex had given you.

Give back to the community

Finally, consider showing your community some love and appreciation by volunteering for a charity or organization that’s near and dear to you. Not only can volunteering make you feel good inside, but you never know when you’ll have a positive and long-lasting effect on someone else. Teleflora suggests checking with your local school or visiting a nursing home.

If you’re single, you’re in good company. More than 45 percent of American adults have yet to mate via matrimony. That’s 110.6 million people in your shoes. Don’t let being alone on Valentine’s Day get you down. Remember, you don’t have to do anyone else’s laundry, share your bed, or fight over the TV. And if you want to get out and celebrate the season of love, you can do it on your own terms whether you want to volunteer or spend the day alone or with friends; do it your way to enjoy the holiday.

LindasDateList.com helps online daters and people in relationships to find love, identify people who are deceiving you or better ways to help you in your online pursuits or in your relationships. Connect today for more info! Linda@Lindasdatelist.com

Michael Stephenson - info@theentrepreneurhub.com

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