Hello Readers, Linda here. Today I want to talk about what people put in their profiles as " requirements" , meaning you must meet this certain criteria or I'm not dating you. I can see some things like age, height, location etc but I got a message from a guy that had so many " requirements" that I don't even think Jennifer Aniston could meet.
He said if you do the following things then move on because I will not date you.
1. If you are on any kind of antidepressants. Ok, all of my friends are on some kind of antidepressant meds these days.. Seriously?
2. If you've had any plastic surgery. Ok, I've had some work done as most of my friends have too. I mean Botox is a necessity and what's the big deal anyway? This guy is so stupid, if a woman feels good about herself she will be happy and you will be happy too. I don't know one woman who doesn't want to look good and when you get older some things are a given like Botox.
3. No drama. Ok, as I've covered this before but life is full if drama and everyone has some or you are just not a normal person.
4. No baggage. This is the same as drama, everyone has baggage and life experiences make most people better and stronger people.
5. Married more than once. Ok, I'm pissed at this one because everyone makes mistakes and the men you need to worry about are the ones who never got married. Commitment problems there and this guy says he's never been married yet... To me that's a big red flag if a guy is over 40 and has never been married.
So to sum this all up, the guy is unrealistic and I did message him back and say I don't meet all your criteria and good luck finding someone who does because that person doesn't exist.

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Xoxo, Linda