Hello Readers, Linda here. Today I want to tell you a story about one time when I caught my X-husband cheating. This is when we had been married about 2 years. I was a stay a home wife. Stupidly I quit my dream job shortly after marrying him. Anyway, I was cleaning his desk one day while he was at work and something told me to check his computer (email account) so I did. Note: when your gut instinct tells you something is not right, then something isn’t right. It never lies to you. Anyway, what I found was several emails to a lady that lived in another state. One of the emails that he sent to her was of him taking a ‘selfie’ of himself fresh out of the shower with just a towel around his waist. Now remember my X is a beautiful man. Very handsome who I always thought looked the best with his clothes off and it’s true he is very handsome.(And he knows it) When I saw this it really hurt me. I was devastated to say the least. I had caught this man cheating over and over and always believed his lies when he said he would never do it again.
I had no idea who this woman was. I thought I knew all of his past sluts but I had never heard her name or anything. I googled her and found her in a different state she worked as a realtor I believe and she was a married woman. In the emails my husband sent to her he told her that he should have married her and how he regrets the way they broke up yada yada yada…
She was definitely a guilty party too. The things she said to him were just as bad. What did I do you ask? Well, I printed out all of the emails and taped them all over his office. When he got home and walked in the door I never said a word. I waited until he went upstairs to his office and he saw what I did. I then went to his office and told him I know her name, her address and her phone number and I also know she is a married woman. He proceeded to tell me it was his old college girlfriend and he was sorry what he did and it was wrong.
Eventually I forgave him. I made him send her an email in front of me telling her he was wrong to contact her at all and that he is married too. What I should have done was pack my bags and start the divorce proceedings then and there because he never changed and I don’t think he ever will.
Of course I threatened to call her husband and I never ended up doing it but I am sure that wasn’t the end of their contact. He is a total jerk who is a cheater, liar and a thief. I learned a hard lesson and I ended up staying with him for about 3 years after that and I never ever trusted him and I never will. We are not friends and he does try to contact me still to this day but it’s over. I’d rather be alone then go through all that again.

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Xoxo, Linda