“He’s Still on Dating Sites?”


I continued to see him even about 2-3 times a week. I thought he was falling in love with me I mean he was so charming and funny. We had a routine where I would just come to his apartment and stay the night. He never took me out to dinner. Eventually, we started ordering take out but he would never go and sit down at a restaurant. I was accepting this as the norm and getting used to it I mean after all I was getting to see him more and he was getting me food and showering me with attention and lots and lots of emails that were so sweet they made me melt. There was always alcohol involved as he would always have it there for me.
Meanwhile, my BFF was checking all of the online dating sites and guess what? He was on almost all of them! This was puzzling and disturbing to me because we were supposed to be “exclusive”.
I asked him about it and he said it was his brother using his picture? HUH? Why would you let your brother use your picture he must not be attractive (later I found out his brother was not attractive). My BFF and I didn’t buy his story so we came up with a plan.
My BFF set up a fake profile on one of the dating sites and emailed him. Of course it was his him he so eagerly gave her his email address and so we knew he was a liar! What did I do about it you ask? I broke things off with him I mean I caught him lying and that meant he was seeing other girls so I broke it off.
A couple days later he emails me (if you haven’t figured it out by now this man lived by his email) and asks if we can start seeing each other again and he says he removed himself from the dating sites. So, what do I do going against the advice of my BFF I take him back. After all I was in love with this guy he was perfect for me I mean he just needs to get used to having a girlfriend he never did it to hurt me. Right? DUH!
So, things moved along and those face creams and nail polish never went away… interesting… I also found a pony tail clip for a women’s hair. I told myself this had to be his x-wife’s.

Lesson learned:
1. Something is wrong when a guy won’t take you out to dinner.
2. If he’s on dating sites after you are exclusive dump him he’s a player.
3. When you catch him red handed dump him!
4. After you dump him DON”T GO BACK TO HIM!
5. Listen to your BFF!
6. Looks are deceiving!