“Quarterback Sneak”


Eventually he moved out of his studio apartment and into a one bedroom which happened to be right next door to his current apartment. By the way, the complex had a security door where he would actually have to buzz you in there was no other access. We continued our relationship and I was falling deeper and deeper in love with him.
It was a Saturday and I had planned on going to his apartment that night and he suddenly emailed me with an excuse why he couldn’t see me that night. I thought it was really weird and I had a sick feeling in my stomach my women’s intuition was telling me something just wasn’t right. I was very upset. My BFF was very suspicious as well. I remembered one time he told me his password to his email when I was at his apartment so I decided to sign in under his username and what I found was so disturbing! My heart sunk and broke into a million pieces.
I read email after email from him to a number of different ladies. HE was seeing multiple women at the same time but it was all about sex with them. They would come to his apartment on different days of the week obviously on the days I wasn’t there. You see, I traveled during the week for my job M-F so I didn’t see him during the week at the time so he had the perfect girlfriend in me because he could do what he wanted during the week.
My BFF read all the emails too. My heart was racing I didn’t know what to do I wanted to cry and I did and scream and anyway I just freaked out! I had to see him and confront him so I drove to his apartment about 10 pm on that Saturday night. I called him and made up a story of why I had to see him and I was right outside. So, he reluctantly let me in. I swear to this day I think there was a girl in the bedroom as I met him in the doorway. I asked him who this certain woman was. From the email, she had been to his apartment that day during the day for a sexcapade. HE told me she was just a friend and he denied everything else. I was so upset I ended up telling him off especially since we were not using protection because we were supposed to be in a monogamous relationship and that scared me more than anything.
You should have seen the look on his face when he realized I knew everything all of his secrets. He was panicky and really sweating it. He asked me to leave and I did. I was so devastated by this I had to see a therapist. By the way, this man had a Master’s Degree in psychology and even did an internship so when I told the therapist that he told me well he should not be practicing because this guy is a very bad guy. He was right and my BFF was right. I should have listened to them!

Lessons learned:
1. Always listen to your intuition it is always right. If something doesn’t make sense then something isn’t right.
2. Don’t be so naïve. Accepting feeble excuses is not a good thing think more highly of yourself!
3. Listen to your BFF.
4. Looks are deceiving!