He called the next day after our first date. He asked if I wanted to go see a movie. Of course I was EXCITED! He suggested we meet at the Hotel by his apartment and have a cocktail and then go from there. I agreed. Ladies…. I should have realized then and there this guy is ALL ABOUT HIMSELF. He won’t go out of his way to come to me and wants me to again come to him. At the time my BFF made a comment about it and of course I didn’t listen because I was on GET THIS GUY MODE so I was going to do whatever it took, whatever he wanted… stupid girl… stupid girl…

So, I did it! I drove to the hotel by his apartment. We met in the bar and had a cocktail and then he suggested we drive in his Jeep to the movie theater. I remember getting into his Jeep, he opened the door and acted like a complete gentleman. I looked over at him and thought to myself “this guy is too skinny he needs a woman’s touch”.  UGH, why do we (women) feel the need to want to change the guy? (What you see if what you get is what I have learned through all of this.) He was extremely handsome though and super funny I mean he really made me laugh I was in heaven… again, stupid girl, stupid girl…

We watched the James Bond movie and he never offered to buy a soda or popcorn or anything I thought that was a little weird but I let it go because I certainly wasn’t going to ask I was just way too nice.

After the movie we drove back to the hotel and we both got out of the Jeep. He then went in for the kiss and it was passionate! In fact he had to pull himself away because he was getting too excited. I loved it he made me feel special I mean I was so attracted to this guy it was disgusting!

He walked me to my car and we kissed goodbye.

I was totally smitten.

Lesson learned:

1. It’s just a MOVIE…
2. It’s just a second date not a proposal.
3. Listen to your BFF!
4. What you see is what you get.
5. Looks can be deceiving!