The Other, Other Woman


Hello Readers, Linda here. Today let’s talk about the “Other, Other Woman”. There is simply too much to write about in one blog so this will be one of many. Let’s start from the beginning. I first found out about this woman after my x and I have been dating about 4 months. How I found about her is I thought my x was acting weird I mean he didn’t make any plans with me all weekend so I stumbled across an email from his account and I found all these emails from her. She was there on that Saturday when he blew me off. She came over in the afternoon for some afternoon delight. When I was reading the emails my stomach was in knots and I was ready to throw up I had no idea he was seeing anyone else! In my mind I pictured this beautiful woman who was much more attractive than myself I mean she had to be right? Why else would he blow me off to see her?
Anyway, it was about 6pm on that Saturday night that I read the emails. Immediately I called my BFF and she read them too. I decided to go over there and confront him. I drove over to his place and called him from outside and said I really needed to see him and it was an emergency. He reluctantly let me in. I immediately asked him who this woman was and he looked completely shocked! He said she was just a friend which was a total lie. I was crying and I was really so upset I could not contain myself he finally asked me to leave so I did and my heart was pounding so hard it was incredible I have never felt like that I my entire life!
Meanwhile, my BFF was gathering all the other women’s email accounts so that we could let them know what he was doing to all of us. See “Global Email to All the Women” in Linda’s blogs…
The next day I emailed the woman. She told me the whole story, she was there that day and she saw him several days a week for sex. But, it was purely selfish on his part and she didn’t care she was in love with him. She was not surprised to hear about me. We exchanged pictures and boy was I wrong. She was so unattractive and overweight… I was shocked and she was older than him. When she saw my picture she got nervous and turned against me and turned back to his side... She said I was the trophy girlfriend. She was right. Turns out this woman was a thorn in my side our entire relationship. She would not go away and again, I am not blaming her all the way I am blaming him. Turns out she was involved in swingers clubs and all sorts of weird sex things. Exactly what any perverted man would like. He is a con man who uses women for his own pleasure and doesn’t care who he hurts.
Lessons learned:
1. Listen to your BFF.
2. Looks are deceiving.
3. Once a cheater always a cheater.
4. Men Love Sex and don’t really care how someone looks.