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When you love someone like that. A dating story.

Hello Readers, Linda here. Today I want to talk about a true dating story. This is not an Online Dating story but my friend met a guy at a bar story. It all started at the Sports Bar. At first she gave him the cold shoulder because well she's just that way. She is gorgeous and can get away with it. He was immediately fascinated with her because she shined him on. Eventually he got her attention and the chemistry was out of the box fantastic, electric and sexy. They spent the evening together.
He called her the next day for a date. Now, I don't advocate one night stands and obviously there was alcohol involved, too much!
She agreed to go on a date. He took her to a Sushi place. He looked so cute and even got up from the table to her side of the table and kissed her in front of everyone! He was into her and so was she into him. They texted every day and saw each other for over a month a lot.
They even spent New Years Eve together! Had the perfect midnight kiss picture taken it was perfect, or so she thought.
Soon after that night he stopped texting and calling... Oh, I forgot he made it to her place one last night and even left his clothes there.
Now, after that she never heard from him. At this point she was "All in". She let her guard down and was falling fast and then he just stopped.
She was heartbroken and confused. She decided to text him and ask him why she hasn't heard from him? He told her he "just didn't think about it"!
What a jerk! Was there another woman involved? Probably...
This is why you should date someone before getting intimate. Women, you know when we get intimate we get involved with our hearts and guys don't. They don't think the way we do, to them it's just sex.
This is a fragile subject but it's very important to understand that guys think different than girls.
Don't jump in unless you are prepared to get your heart broken. I can say that my friend definitely got her heart broken and I hope has learned a valuable lesson.
Guys can be real jerks but they only treat you the way you let them. Date a guy for awhile before getting intimate, it will be worth it, hell, you're worth the wait! Value yourself and don't give it away without monogamy....
Love you girlfriend, I will always be here to support you....
Xoxo, Linda

KittyLickerXXX wants to meet you? A POF dating story...

Hello Readers, Linda here. Today I want to tell you about a POF (plenty of fish) dater KittyLickerXXX! How disgusting is that? Why does POF allow these types of users on their site anyway? They should really have a team of screeners like does to screen the users! Seriously I am going to report him if he's looking for that there are sites out there for him but let's try and keep POF half way respectable by reporting users like him.
I did look at his profile picture and he's just gross looking. What is it with these guys? If anyone knows anything please enlighten me. Just because something is free doesn't mean you can abuse your intentions. POF is a dating site not a solicit sex site (well it's supposed to be anyway).
Have some class dude and get off this site!
Xoxo, Linda

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My true story of Sexual Harrassment and Sexuual Assault in the workplace.
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Hey Cosby, Where do you get the DATE RAPE DRUG?

Hello Readers, Linda here. Today I want to ask the question to Bill Cosby, where do you get your date rape drugs? Someone needs to track the person down! I know in Hollywood there has to be a connection for him but who is it and why would this person sell a date tape drug to Bill Cosby?
I bet this person is worrying now after all of the rapes have been exposed! Ladies and Gentlemen, don't ever let anyone go and get a drink for you! Always be there and pay attention to what goes in. You don't want this to happen to you.
Xoxo, Linda

What are Roofies? 

Rohypnol (the brand name of Flunitrazepam), or "roofie", is a Benzodiazapine, a prescription pill similar to Valium. It has been illegal to bring this drug into the U.S. since 1996.

Roofies comes in 0.5 mg or 1.0 mg tablets, which are generally ground up and mixed into drinks. The older tablets look very much like aspirin and cost anywhere from $1.00 to $5.00; the newer pills, which contain a blue dye, are tan colored ovals (see photo).

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Bill Cosby Strikes Again!

Hello Readers, Linda here. Well this morning I watched a video from a model who says that Bill Cosby raped her at the Playboy Mansion in 2008! I feel really bad for this girl she didn't deserve that and her story was that she actually woke up during the rape and when Bill Cosby saw she woke up he pulled his pants up and left her there. He was at the time licking her toes... EWWWW!

The model claims that when they walked into the mansion, Cosby and Heff greeted them and then Cosby left to get drinks for these ladies and when she started drinking her drink, she felt dizzy and disoriented and Cosby offered to help her a room to lie down. He had his plan in place and you can't tell me Heff is innocent in this he knows what Cosby is Doing! And you cannot blame the model because anyone would and could be charmed by Cosby enough to allow him to accompany her to a room completely trusting Dr. Huxable... Give me a break. 

The sad part is that I wonder just how many people know what Cosby has been doing and never said a word about it? I bet there are some Television Execituves that know about Cosby and his antics. 

Ok, so for all of the Bill Cosby supporters you can all go and hide in your homes because you were WRONG! And I believe in this case the statue of limitations has not exceeded. Thank GOD! If it takes this one poor girl to set the record straight then that's pretty sad.

This is sad because I can't help but think of the great Robin Williams who took his own life last year for nothing. What a sad loss and what a brilliant comedian. Cosby wouldnt have the balls to do what Robin did and he probably should. Sorry, but Sexual Predators never get better. They cannot be rehabilitated. I would trade Robin for Cosby any day! That was a man of integrity and compassion for other people and was a brilliant comedian.

Unless you have been sexually assaulted then you have no idea what it feels like. It's a horrible, humiliating feeling. This is something you really never get over.

I hope they prosecute and sue his ass to the limit! This man has been manipulating women by his celebrity and power and money for way too long! I am sure there will be even more women that come forward too.
Shame on you Bill Cosby! I hope you get what you deserve.
Xoxo, Linda

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Garbage in Garbage out! Guest blogger

On Jan 8, 2015, at 9:37 PM, Amanda Liberty wrote:

Hello Readers...
Amanda here... Linda's daughter

What I still have yet to understand is how many beautiful, successful men and women who become victims of a broken heart. People think that just because you are good looking that you are not emotionally damaged but there are way too many people carrying emotional baggage.

We all hear from friends and family " why are you with him/her"? Or "you can do so much better" and the best yet.." Love is blind". What most of us do not realize is we actually manage what happens next. In other words, how you grow from a broken heart is critical. You need to take time to heal first before you go into your next relationship and learn not to compare your X with a new relationship. I am guilty of this always looking for someone better than my X.

Unfortunately when things turn out not be as we dreamed, a wall is built. When you put up a wall you're acting as the person you ONCE were and the reality is that person doesn't exist anymore. Emotional walls come from an allowable place.

We have one life to live so let's make the best of it and don't let one bad heartbreak determine the rest of your life. Throw that picture away, delete and block that number... Most importantly don't look back, because that moment you stop looking and dwelling on the past you just might realize what you want has been there all along, or to your left or your right...... ;)

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Amanda's Story - guest blogger

Hello Readers, Linda's daughter here, Amanda and I'm. Ready to share my story........

Love can be a dangerous,harmful, deceiving yet illuminative experience.I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned the hard way that some poems don't rhyme and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it without knowing what's going to happen next. Have you ever been in love? It means you have been vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens your heart. It means someone can get inside you and destroy your life.but that feeling, that gut feeling that tells you NO, overpowers your common sense, your sense of reality. Then one day you wake up on the ground and struggle to get up. Point being be aware and don't let your emotions get control of your common sense when it comes to these online daters...remember friend people can be ANYONE online, perception is reality...
Lindasdaelist Book #2 soon to come with true life experiences of love,lust and reality ;)

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Some Advice for the Guys... Don't be a STALKER!

Hello Readers, Linda here. Today I want to give some much needed advice to the guy Online Daters. When you meet a girl online, don't start talking about how you think she's the one for you or put her on a pedestal too much over the phone. This happened to me and it started to make me feel uncomfortable. I mean honestly, I haven't even met this guy in person yet and he's already talking about being a couple? This is just weird and it turns a girl off because we think this guy hasn't even seen me in person yet and what if, I mean what IF I don't like him when I see him? Awkward! This is why you don't give too much personal information to a complete stranger over the phone before you even meet!
Just try and keep the conversation light and funny at first. Don't be so serious it is just a turn off!
So, we talk a couple times on the phone and make a tentative meeting for a few days later. He doesn't call the day before to confirm or anything so I just write him off ( I had a weird feeling anyway) and you should always listen to your gut instinct.
He calls the next day from a different number because well, I blocked his cell phone, decided he was too strange and I answer the phone. He proceeds to tell me " we have a serious problem here" and I said "we do"? And he says " yes, we were supposed to meet last night. Well, luckily I got another call I needed to take so I asked him to hold on then I just never went back to his call. And don't tell me we have a serious problem! I don't have any problems and no one wants to pick up the phone to hear that kind of dialogue!

When I got off the phone, I blocked the SECOND number! Case closed or so I thought. Yesterday my phone rang again from another number and I answer it and it's him again! WTF? I hung up on him and blocked that number. Now, this is getting stalker like so if he calls again I will have to tell him he's stalking me and to knock it off or I'll have to file a report. Seriously, take a hint guys if we don't answer your call then we don't like you! Simple as that. Don't be a stalker!

Xoxo, Linda

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New Years Resolutions - You Can Do It!

Hello Readers, Linda here. Today I want to talk about the New Year. Everyone has some ideas about resolutions and whatever they may be, just get busy making it happen. Last year at this time I made a New Years resolution to start my own business, write my first book and spend more time with family and friends. I am proud to say I accomplished all of the ones listed. This year, I have plans for a new book (which I am almost done with), eating healthier and have even more fun with friends and family! I also want to vacation somewhere tropical. I have no plans to fall in love because I think that will happen naturally when the time is right. In the meantime, I will move forward with my life and let everything fall into place.
What are your resolutions? I am a huge procrastinator and if I can meet my resolution promises to myself, so can you! Time is of the essence we don't know how long we will be on this earth so the timing is everything.
If your resolution is to find love, keep your mind open. Say hi to that pretty girl or handsome guy when you see them in the store. Flirt a little and always have a sense of humor and a big smile on your face. People will notice you more if you look happy and part of being happy is maybe losing that weight, exercising, changing your hair color or anything else that makes you feel good about yourself.
Maybe you want some plastic surgery? I say go for it if it makes you feel better about yourself! On this page is my personal plastic surgeon who in my opinion is the very best in California! Dr. Mowlavi is the best!
For the guys looking for love, I recommend reading the book "Masterdate" by George Reagan available on It is very informative information and gals it wouldn't hurt to read it too. It is a great book to read if you're looking for love! And last but not least, my book " The Top 10 Things People Lie About on Online Dating Sites and Why - What Every Online Dater Needs To Know" is a great read for those online daters. I wrote it as a coffee table book, it's not too long but filled with information. It's available on, or Barnes and Noble.
I hope everyone has a productive and fun New Year 2015!
Xoxo, Linda

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